Just Some idle musings

Shared Journeys

A Journey is lovely or worse what you make of it, be it holiday leisure journey, work related or the most important journey of life.

Yes there are bad ones and good ones . Make good ones memorable and bad ones adventures and if these are shared journeys with family and/or friends they become just awesome long picnics. Especially the journey of life with its unpredictable twists and turns shared with loved ones becomes pleasurable and beautiful even on bad turns. Alone it becomes a burden.

 In my opinion a shared journey is the best journey of all.

All you need is

someone to share the good and the bad; An ear to listen to our hopes and dreams; A voice of moderation when you go extremes; A shoulder to cry on ; A encouraging word when you feel down;


Just thinking

We are being prompted again and again to give up our LPG subsidies for the benefit of the poor and the needy. I am wondering by poor and needy do they mean MLAs and MPs. How many of them have given up their subsidies or ration quotas. Why do they need canteen subsidies. In the parliament canteen they get 5 star quality food less than the rate of a roadside dhaba. Are really they so poor.

So the conclusion is they are the real poor and needy

Just wondering


When I was just out of college I wanted to be a working woman and disliked to be at home mom or a housewife. Now I am just that what I disliked;  whether out of laziness or necessity that’s a different matter. Does that mean I’ve become a nonentity or a useless person.

Should all ladies come hail or fire continue working despite all problems.

Because problems after a while are all solved and everybody forgets why you had to leave the job even your husband and then start the  self doubts and unseen SCARS on your heart caused by barbs of your supposed loved ones where you are asked what you have contributed to this family and the house, Is staying at home and taking care of family so useless Then why a women who works and earns as much as her husband or more considered a failure when her house is unkempt, the elderly not taken care of and children run wild.

Why a woman only has to bear the scars of failure or has God failed somewhere as he didn’t give the superpowers to women